Rita's Journal

Fri, 04 Apr 2008 19:57:36 GMT

So it's been a while since i've posted on here and to be completely honest i've just been at a loss for words. I feel like it was inevitable that we would all drift apart after going off to school but I never knew how much it was going to hurt. We all say that we'll hang out in the summer and it'll be back to how it was...it won't. We'll all be working and doing our own thing and nothing will ever been the same. I don't wanna sound like a downer or anything but i really do miss all you guys and i wish that we were still as tight as we were. I feel like a let down.. some people i thought i was close with just don't seem to want to be close with me anymore. oh well..i guess that's life...
but on a more positive note, today was my last day of classes! and now it's two weeks of exams and we'll have to say our goodbyes. i am living with them all next year but it'll be wierd not being able to walk down a flight of stairs to chill with everyone. oh well once gain...that's life...

Stolen from Sarah <3

Tue, 22 Jan 2008 18:38:05 GMT

just needed to say that i have the best friends ever. i love you guys soo much!

1. Who has seen you in your underwear lately? Sarah finlay, haha we peed together!

2. Is it awkward when you run into your exes? umm not really, i'm really good friends with him

3. What are you looking forward to? the weekend

4. When did you last talk to your brother or sister? i don't have any :)

5. What did you do the last time you were home alone? watched Dexter

6. Do you ever wanna know who you're going to marry? ya maybe, probably not

7. Have you ever watched the Real World? ya i was hooked on the Denver one for a while

8. How much cash do you have on you? umm about $200 from my birthday!

10. Are you tanned? well kind of, it is winter ya know

11. Are you upset with anyone? nope, i love everyone!

13. Have you ever seen your best friend cry? yes i have

14. Who's your number 5 friend on your top friends? umm on facebook? it's alex segouin!

15. Did you get any compliments today? well someone told me i was really special to them

16. Have you ever gone to court? on a field trip

17. Are you friends with your neighbors? jeremy! haha creeper,love that guy

18. What's the last text message in your inbox say? from sarah d "Too much (clap clap) time on my hands! That just came on in my caf lol... Happy birthday (again) love you!"

19. When was the last time you drove more than 15 minutes? ro drive sean home lol

20. Have you ever punched a guy? i punched justin in like grade 5, haha sorry man i love you!

21. Do you get jealous easily? umm depends on who it is

22. Have you ever played Spin the Bottle? ya at my 13th birthday

23. Toilet papered someone's house? nope

24. Have you ever had a crush on your brother's or sister's friends? i don't have any!

25. Have you ever gone to the beach? aww yeah!

26. What are you listening to? michael jackson

27. Do you remember your music teacher's name from elementary school? ms baxter haha for the recorder!!

28. How good is your eye sight? not good at all

29. Would you ever want to swim with the sharks? oh man yes!

30. What would you say if I told you I was in love with your brother? i'd say "you have the wrong person because i don't have a brother"

31. Have you ever been out of your country? yup, USA, United Kingdom, France, Italy!

32. Would your parents be mad if you got arrested for fighting? my dad would give me a high five but my mom would be very dissapointed

33. Where are your sibling(s) right now? don't have any! are you trying to make me feel bad or something? jeeze...

35. Who was the last person to call you? haha funny story..

36. What time did you wake up this morning? 12:30

37. What are you doing next weekend? going home, come to guelph another weekend guys, i really wanna be here when you come!

39. What's in your back pocket? i'm wearing pyjama pants and they have no back pockets

41. What were you doing at 3am this morning? watching Everybody Loves Raymond...drunk..

42. What do you usually do first in the morning? go on the computer

43. Who is your favorite band? not sure anymore, probably still Deep Purple

44. What is the status of you and the last person you called? haha funny story again...

45. What is wrong with you right now? i'm hungry, and a little hungover

47. When did you last cry? sunday

48. Who do you hate? nobody, really.

51. Drinking? woot woot legal as of yesterday!

52. What’s your favorite thing to have on your bed? someone else haha.. jokes!

53. What do you wear to bed? pyjamas

54. Do you tend to make relationships complicated? umm i don't think so

56. Are you friends with all of your exes? i'm friendly with them, not friends though

57. Whose house did you go to last night? no ones.

58. What about the night before that? sean's house to drop him off

59. Do you like anyone right now? why yes i do

60. Are you bored? not really

61. What is the last movie you watched? cloverfield, sick movie!

63. Who was last to touch your butt? katie harkins or andrew rogers haha

64. When you sleep do you dream about your significant other? ya lol

65. What’s on your mind right now? physics... BOO!

67. Name someone whose name starts with the letter "J". Justin

68. Do you care what others think about you? ya sometimes

69. Do you trust people easily? yes i do

70. Do you think you'll be married in 10 years? umm not sure, i'll just be finishing vet school *fingers crossed*

71. Will you kiss the last person you kissed again? yes

72. What do you look forward to in the next 3 months? reading week, gambling at the race track with the finlays!

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1. Do you have a tattoo? nope but i want one

2. How old are you? nineteen!

3. Are you single or taken? single

4. Fish? as pets, not to eat

5. Do you dream in color? i think so

6. Do you have any recurring dreams? not for a while

7. How about them hipsters? oh ya them hipsters..

8. How did we meet? elementary school, POP bitches!

9. What's your philosophy on life and death? dream as if you'll live forever. live as if you'll die today - james dean

10. If you could do anything with me, what would it be? hang out, drink a little!

11. What's your favorite guilty pleasure? dads haha oh man

12. Do you like musicals? i love hairspray!

13. What is your fondest memory of me? umm too many to even think about

14. If you could change anything about yourself what would it be? umm smaller feet lol

15. If you could close your eyes and be transported anywhere in the world, where would it be? the rockies!

16. What are you wearing? pyjama pants, old navy t-shirt and shoes lol

17. Have you ever gone swimming after dark? oh ya, sarah finlay's pool skinny dipping haha!

18. Have you ever sung in public? oh yes!

19. If we had one day to hang out together, what would we do? sing and dance, a lot!

20. Which do you prefer - short or long hair? short

21. What's your favorite day of the week? friday probably

22. What's your favorite color? blue

23. What's your favorite period in history? medieval period, haha holy grail.

24. Tell me one interesting/odd fact about you. I didn't drink much until university

25. How many pets do you have right now? twoo cats

26. What was your first impression of me? way too long ago

27. Will you post this so I can fill it out for you? yup

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1. Do you sleep in your bra? ya usually, i just forget to take it off

2. What color is your room? white, off white i guess

3. Are you happy with your looks? meh, who is really?

4. Do you enjoy drama? ya baird is awsome

5. Are you a girly girl? not at all

6. Who was the last person you hugged? kieran lol

7. Small or large purses? neither

8. Are you short? not really

9. Do you like someone? i like a lot of people

10. What would you do if someone smacked your butt? ask if their hand was broken... haha jokes probably laugh

11. Do you care if your socks are dirty? not really

12. Do you think you're conceited? haha noooo

13. Do you dress up on Halloween? yes!

14. Are you double jointed? not at all

15. Where is the weirdest place you have slept? on a table in the foyer of my high school. haha 30 hour fast..

16. Has anyone touched/smacked your butt in the past 24 hours? umm not that i know of *wink wink*

17. Is there any type of rumor going around about you? not sure

18. Do you call anybody by their last name? ya segouin

20. How many guys will read this just because of the subject? none, i have no guy friends on livejournal

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YES OR NO

[ no ] I do wear makeup

[ yes ] I have cried in a movie theater.

[ no ] I can put mascara on without opening my mouth.

[ yes ] I sometimes get jealous.

[ YES! ] I think Johnny Depp is sexy.

[ yes ] I love to laugh.

[ no ] I like death/grind/black metal.

[ yes ] I like rap.

[ yes ] I like techno.

[ no ] I like country.

[ no ] I carry a purse.

[ yes ] I'd be lost without my computer

[ no ] I own a Spice Girls CD.

[ yes ] I own a Britney Spears CD.

[ yes ] I own a boy band CD.

[ yes ] I get bored watching football.

[ yes ] I've been called a spoiled brat.

[ yes ] Guys are confusing (Girls are more confusing, though.)

[ yes ] I've been called a bad influence.

[ yes ] My friends are the best.

[ no ] I have a piercing other then my ears.

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1. What color is your bra that your wearing? grey

2. Do you prefer light or dark haired guys? doesn't really matter

3. Are you currently frustrated with a boy? a little

5. Do you have a best friend? i have many best friends

6. Have you ever had your heart broken? no not really

7. Have you ever thought of having plastic surgery? haha ya

8. Do you like your life? yes i do

9. Has a friend ever stolen a boyfriend from you? umm hopefully not :S

11. Have you ever jumped in the pool with your clothes on? yes!

12. Do you have more friends that are girls or boys? probably equal

14. Have you ever slapped a boy in the face? umm dan i think for fun

15. What are your biggest fears? death of a loved one

16. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep? yes

17. Have you ever not been able to get someone off of your mind? yes

18. Do you believe in the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater"? no

19. Have you ever had a good feeling about someone? yes

20. Do you ever wish you were famous? ya sometimes

21. Are you currently missing someone? yes

Sat, 29 Dec 2007 23:53:45 GMT

so i had so many big plans for this break and so far i havn't really accomplished any. well i saw sweeney todd today and it was okay, johnny was sexy as hell but the movie was a little wierd. but i miss everyone so much and i wish we could all hang out more. i am stoked for new years, it should be a helluva good time. anyway christmas was awsome and i'm loving the family time but anyway i'm out.

Thu, 18 Oct 2007 13:36:14 GMT

so here's a quick summary of the last month and a half. i love the people here. i hate the work. i hate not being close to any of my best friends, except for Bree who i hardly see. i hate being in a relationship where's there's no feelings from my end. i love hearing about everyone's stories and all the new friends everyone is making. i love random voicemails from old neighbours lol (ya alex that's you, <3) i love midnight trips to mountain and keychain fights. i hate being 2 hours away from the 2 people who i've spent my entire life with. so let's weigh the pro's and cons. there's 4 hates and 4 loves if i've counted right. i'll take that. considering things could be a hell of a lot worse, i'm pretty content. i think i'm alright. love you guys!

Thu, 02 Aug 2007 17:06:23 GMT

ok i'd like to add two things to my summer to-do list!

go to the zoo
go to african lion safari

alright there we go!

Fri, 27 Jul 2007 21:32:54 GMT

ok well since university is fast approaching and summmer is almost half over i thought i'd lay out some of the things i'd like to accomplish before september 2 which is my offical residence move in day! so here we go:

learn the thriller dance
perfect the hustle
finish reading harry potter
eat at every restaurant in town
take pictures at all my fav places in keswick
go camping
hit a homerun
beat luxx at scene it
go to a haunted house with the finlays!
bike to sutton
have a huge sleepover at my house when my parents are away!

well there you have it, i'm sure i'll have more things to add!

Mon, 16 Jul 2007 16:14:41 GMT

i would just like to let everyone know that i have claimed the new ill Scarlett song, nothing special! it's effing amazing and i claim it. thank you. rhiannon out!

Wed, 04 Jul 2007 15:20:44 GMT

holy crap i'm a friggin idiot

Cassie - you're the the only i can tell absolutely anything too. i've never trusted anyone as much as i trust you. i would honestly die for you, i love you so much, we've kind of drifted apart over the last year but i still see you as my best friend and i will always remember how close we were and the experiences we've had. you fucking rock!

Sun, 01 Jul 2007 23:15:54 GMT

alright well since high school is over and the summer has just started i would like to say a few things to a few people, even if they don't have a livejournal:

Luxx- i love you so much, you are the best neighbour anyone could have, you've dealt with so much of my crap and every christmas we'll see each other because we'll be right back home to Old Homestead and i look forward to every single time.

Dan- you've been with me through thick and thin. you've helped me when i thought nothing could be helped. and i know we're all moving on without you but i will never ever forget the times we've had and how much i love you so much as my best friend

Segouin- you're my friggin girl! so many laughs and so many good times we've had w/basketball and softball and calculus lol. we've been through so much and even though you don't really know what to do with your life i know you'll be great and i'll love you no matter what happens

Sarah D- oh man our friendship has been so bitter-sweet. we've gone in so many gay little fights but we come back and laugh at them everytime. i love it! i know that just because we're going off to university doesn't mean we can't still be tight. i'll always be there! <3

Heidi- oh heidi, what can i say about you? i was your first passenger when you got your G2 and even though i'm scared shitless to drive with you, i love you to death!

Briana- B1+B2, our memories have just started, we're going off to Guelph with each other and i hope we can be even more tight than we already are, I LOVE YOU AFRICA!

Matt and Dale- <3<3<3 that's all lol

Sarah F- i don't even have to say anything because you know how i feel about you <3!

Kristine- i'm going to miss you so much! you're like the little sister i never had lol we'll hang out when i come back from universtiy though! stay cool and take care of mr brown for me!

well i really hope i didn't forget anyone! i love all you guys and you've made high school the best experience of my life. there are still GT's and laughs to come! PEACE!

Mon, 18 Jun 2007 02:30:44 GMT

well this weekend has been full of contemplation. i've been thinking that my last 5 years of my life have been amazing and i really don't want it to come to end..this week! but on the other hand i'm in need of a change. i can't believe that this week is the last week i'm going to be with all the grade 12's! not all of them are going to prom! oh man and all the teachers i'm going to miss! ms. g, ms. l, miss brennan!, BROWN!, macLoed, brimble, west.. the list goes on..LERO! oh man. and all the grade 11's and 10's that are uber cool...i cried today in cheaper by the dozen just because i was feeling emotional. on the plus side.. i got the Used's new CD. it's so amazing. i claim it and all the songs on it lol. if anyone wants to borrow it, give me a shout. well i better go. have a good one guys!

Tue, 29 May 2007 01:51:21 GMT

well today was a productive day i guess. i got a prom dress. all i can really say is it's long a royal blue. i like it i guess. as much as i'm going to like a dress. so it's official i'm going to Guelph, i'm kind of excited i guess. i still have to pick my courses though. anyway i better go, last softball game tomorrow! (BOO)!

Sat, 28 Apr 2007 13:57:16 GMT

..all this shall seem but a dream- a dream of love on an echanted midsummer's night..

so last night was the last show. baird was definetely right, it's bitter sweet. no more rehearsals every week but also no more vito and rhiannon times in the booth with baird lol. it was such a good experience. anyway on to the next thing!

Wed, 11 Apr 2007 02:53:19 GMT

well since i havn't really updated in a while i thought i'd update you all. so i got into university of guelph for animal biology. i wanna go there. it looks like i'm going to be spending the next four years of my life with Matt Lemiuex and Briana lol! i've been volunteering at this barn every saturday for 3 hours to build up hours for when i apply to vet school. it's been pretty shitty i guess. so much hard labour lol. the horses are pretty cool. i have this favourite one named Ed. he's friggin huge and i love him. and there's this little pony named Leto who doesn't trust anyone but i gave him carrots so he likes me:). well i guess this is the right time to tell everyone.. my parents are getting back together. my dad's moving back in on May 1. i have mixed feelings about it but i won't bore you with those. but ya my mid term average was pretty shitty. 80%. i need to raise it. but ya easter weekend was pretty cool. JEGUS lmao!. and i got a 24 game, chocolate and the eragon sequel for easter. first year without an egg hunt :( oh man but i bought the new timbaland shock value CD and it's Timbaland and his collaborations with fall out boy, missy elliot, jt, elton john and one republic. it's soo friggin amazing. but anyway i'm kinda tired. keep it real. PEAACE lol

Thu, 05 Apr 2007 21:37:52 GMT

Comment and I'll give you a letter. In your journal, list your 12 favourite songs that begin with that letter.

luxx gave me an R!

Run To the Hills - Iron Maiden
Roses for the Dead - Funeral for a Friend
Rumours - Lindsay Lohan
Rooftops - Lostprophets
Romantic Rights - Death From Above 1979
Rock N' Roll Duty - Kim Mitchell
Roadside - Rise Against
Relax - Mika
Rebel Yell - Billy Idol
Rag Doll - Aerosmith
Ready To Fall - Rise Against
Recovery - Funeral for a Friend

Sat, 24 Feb 2007 17:02:03 GMT

i claim the new finger eleven song parlyzer. it's uber cool. and i claim finger eleven and all their songs

Thu, 22 Feb 2007 02:21:49 GMT

well this week has been pretty decent. on monday i did my second G2 test and.... I PASSED lol. stay off the roads and sidewalks people. i also got into Guelph with a $2000 entrance scholarship. but ya and tuesday was my mom's birthday but i had to go to the pancake supper so i am taking her out on thursday. tonight i saw Bridge to Terabithia with LUxx. omfg saddest movie over. i cried like 5 times. definetely recommended. but i better go, i got lots of homework to do. over and out biatches

Sat, 03 Feb 2007 05:37:48 GMT

irish pub burger + crazy TO driving + sweet hang time with Adam + Billy Talent + shirtless Ben + Rise Against + uber hot rise against singer + crazy mad man behind us + crap load of M&M's = one of the sweetest friday night's ever

Thu, 01 Feb 2007 03:41:30 GMT

well since i havn't updated in a while i'll give you the rundown of the past week or so. i had my 18th birthday weekend which was uber sweet. and then this week me and luxx went to see the sexiest man alive (besides Johnny Depp) Justin friggin timberlake who wasn't lying when he said he was bringing sexyback. it was such an amazing concert and i took so many friggin pictures. but anyway i got accepted into Western which was pretty cool. today i got some new skates for the uber fun hockey game tomorrow. but anyway i better go i'm really sick, and really tired. so later biatches

Wed, 17 Jan 2007 21:43:46 GMT

OMFG I miss Wilson soo friggin much!!

Tue, 16 Jan 2007 03:24:06 GMT

ok i know this is my second post for today but i'm uber depressed. i really don't wanna give wilson back tomorrow. he's just a duck but i get attached to things really easily. i'm honestly going to ball my eyes out tomorrow. there's like 5 hundred million little ducks out there and he's just one of them but i don't know. i'm sure he'll forget about me in like a day but it's still going to be hard. ok so now that i've gone on and on about a duck, i'm going to go do my relgiion

Mon, 15 Jan 2007 20:44:25 GMT

well it's official, first snow day of 2007 was pretty boring. the only good part was sleeping in till 11. wilson ate all his food so i had to get my dad to drive me into the school to get more food. i weighed him, he's 143.2 grams. he's gettin pretty big. but i pretty much spent the entire day watching house. but me and alex are hoping to get outside to play in the snow. i can't even friggin wait. if you wanna join give me a call. but anyway i better go. my religion CPT isn't going to do itself.

Sat, 13 Jan 2007 19:47:19 GMT

IF YOUR LIFE WAS A MOVIE, WHAT WOULD THE SOUNDTRACK BE?
So, here's how it works:

1. Open your library (iTunes, Winamp, Media Player, iPod, etc)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every question, type the song that's playing
5. When you go to a new question, press the next button
6. Don't lie
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Opening Credits:

Waking Up: Like Knives - City and Colour

First Day At School: Rock N' Roll Duty - Kim Mitchell

Falling In Love: I Just Wanna Be With You - NSYNC *no lie*

Fight Song: Say Days Ago - The Used

Breaking Up: The Jetset Life Is Going To Kill You - My Chemical Romance

Prom: No Strings Attached - NSYNC

Life: No Sleep Tonight - The Faders

Mental Breakdown: Hungry Like The Wolf - Duran Duran

Driving: Elemental - Tears For Fears

Flashback: Moving For The Sake Of Motion - Underoath

Getting Back Together: Pump It - Black Eyed Peas

Wedding: Wind It Up - Gwen Stefani

Birth of Child: Streetcar - Funeral for a Friend

Final Battle: Born To Be Alive - Patrick Hernandez

Death Scene: Bette Davis Eyes - Kim Carnes

Funeral Song: You Don't Even Know (How I Love You So) - April Wine

End Credits: Covered In Cowardice - Billy Talent

Sun, 07 Jan 2007 19:29:53 GMT

home sweet home. after 14 days in newfoundland, 20 hours in airports and 15 hours in cars i'm soo glad to be home. i'm so excited to see all my friends, i missed you guys soo much. last night segouin and sarah d. came over and we went and got walkden and then went out for pizza. then we visited cassie and then got dan. then we all came back to my house to chill for a bit. it was soo awsome to see them all. i missed everyone so much. and alex you made me cry with your little notes in the book lmao. and we went to trevor's last night and katie and brenden and chris and adam were there. it was awsome to see all of them. but this morning i slept till 1. it was amazing. i'd been up for 40 hours straight. so i applied to university when i got up. and here's where and what i applied for.

University of Guelph - Animal Biology
Laurentian University - Zoology
Trent University - Biology
University of Western Ontario - Animal Physiology

So let me know what you think. i want input here.

Tue, 02 Jan 2007 19:04:53 GMT

1. What did you do in 2006 that you'd never done before? been out of North America

2. Did you keep your new years' resolution, and will you make more for next year? i don't even remember them from last year

3. Did anyone close to you give birth? Umm not really

4. Did anyone close to you die? No

5. What states did you visit? a lot of them! New York and Ohio

6. What would you like to have in 2007 that you lacked in 2006? my G2

7. What dates from 2006 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?: well the end of April was probably the worst week of my life

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? getting a 96 in math or being captain of the basketball team

9. What was your biggest failure? letting my friends down

10. Did you suffer illness or injury? i had a cold

11. What was the best thing you bought? the who tickets!!

12. Whose behavior merited celebration? alex getting her G probably

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? my dad

14. Where did most of your money go? CD's and Europe

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? house premier, europe and the who concert

16. What song will always remind you of 2006? "to the window, to the wall" lol Europe

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

a) happier or sadder?: sadder in some ways but happier in most

b) thinner or fatter?: fatter definetely, soo much food in Newfie

c) richer or poorer? : Richer

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?: homework

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?: pissing people off

20. How will you be spending Christmas this year?: with my mom hopefully coming back from University

21. Did you fall in love in 2006?: Well i thought i did

22. How many one-night stands?: none

23. What was your favorite TV program?: House for sure

24. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? yes

25. What was the best book you read? probably uglies

26. What was your greatest musical discovery?: i redisocvered the who and rise against probably

27. What did you want and get? good friends

28. What did you want and not get? a lot of things

29. What was your favorite film of this year? king kong

30. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I turned 17 and i had a party with all my friends and we played Truth or Dare Jenga

31. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? my G2

32. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2006? same as 2005 and probably 2007 as well, jeans and a band t-shirt although i went out on a limb for semi

34. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? roberrt sean leonard

35. What political issue stirred you the most? none really

36. Who did you miss? all my friends back home

37. Who was the best new person you met? well i knem them before but i got to know them better this year and that was ashley crate

38. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2006: things that take a life time to build can be shattered within seconds

39. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year: "every second i'm without you i'm a mess"

from another survey.. too lazy to fill out everything so I took the bottom portion. (did the same thing as Alex)

[F I N A L Q U E S T I O N S]
Snuck out - ya at sarah's when we went to Mr Sub
Snuck someone in your house - nope i never need to sneak anyone in my mom's cool like that
Kept your resolution - can't remember what it was
Got arrested - nope
Had a first something - ya
Drank Alcohol- ya
Smoked weed/drugs- nope, does a cigar count though?
Did anything illegal- ya
Kissed a boy/girl- sucked dan's neck lmao as a dare
Had a crush- yup
Liked someone who didn't like you- ya
Lost a family member- nope
Got bad grades- ya effing marketing
Got suspended- nope
Moved states- nope i live in canada
Got a myspace - YES
Learned an instrument- nope
Started a band- guitar for the macbeth band
Spent over 1 million dollars- definetely not
Went streaking- nope
Done something you shouldn't have- ya
Kept a secret- ya
Told a secret- ya
Done something you totally regret- for sure
Changed your view on things- definetely

Wed, 20 Dec 2006 23:04:21 GMT

this is a message for everyone. please don't be upset about this potluck thing. it was honestly just going to be like a few of us bringing food and eating it. it wasn't like a huge party or anything. it's just cause me and segouin are going away for the break and i won't get a chance to chill with any one for a while so it was kinda like a last-time chillin thing and you guys know the size of my house. if it was bigger everyone could have come. but if you were offended because you weren't invited, please don't cause that was not my intention. there are things that you guys would plan and not invite everyone too and this was just one of those things i guess.